A pet owner’s worst fear is losing their beloved companion. For those of us who have experienced this loss, there is usually a heartfelt story to share about a cherished dog or cat’s passing.
From one pet owner to another, we understand the intense pain and emptiness that occurs after this loss. There is truly no correct way to grieve and work through this process, as everyone walks down a different journey with a pet.
Just a few weeks ago, my friend Mary had the heartbreaking decision to make with her beloved Tashi. A little bundle of love and companionship for 14 years, Tashi was the light of Mary’s life. But a sudden turn of health with seizures and what might have been a stroke forced Mary to face her biggest fear. With a very heavy heart, she had to make that difficult decision.
My hope is that my friend can always remember the joy and memories made over those precious years with sweet Tashi.
Like Mary, many of us have had to face this very concern. It’s heart-wrenching and painful, but it’s important to be gently by your pet’s side till the very end. It certainly has helped having truly compassionate veterinarians who are right there for the support and caring that you need.
Dogs and cats live an average of 13 years—enough time to truly enter and live in your heart. Both of my kitties lived a long, spoiled and happy life, 18 years’ worth of pampering.
Pets become a part of your family and daily life. Your morning routine may not be complete without playing fetch or going on a walk with your dog or snuggling with your feline. The death of a pet can be a truly traumatic experience and create a large void in our hearts and lives — comparable to losing a close family member or friend.
People who have never had a pet might not understand the loss and may discredit your feelings as you go through the grieving process, but don’t allow them to dictate your feelings. It is normal to feel devastated after the loss of a pet. It is common to believe that your dog or cat will still be around to greet you at the door when you arrive home.
Some may feel the need to immediately adopt another furry companion, and others may wait for some time before they consider opening their heart once again. It’s a personal choice and everyone handles their grief differently.
A pet is truly a gift that can change your life and bring you incredible happiness and gratitude. Pets teach you responsibility, kindness, playfulness, patience, discipline and, most importantly, unconditional love.
If you are looking to adopt, please stop by the Central Aroostook Humane Society at 210 Cross Street, Presque Isle. Our hours are Tuesdays from 12 to 4 p.m., and Wednesdays through Saturdays, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., closing for lunch from 12 to 12:30 p.m.
Please be responsible: spay and neuter your pets.
Gloria J. Towle is on the Central Aroostook Humane Society Board of Directors.
